Thoughts on the way home.

Nov. 1st, 2025 05:43 pm
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Glasgow still feels much more city-like to me than Edinburgh.

Which is probably why I prefer living in Edinburgh.

(Great to visit though)

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Nov. 1st, 2025 12:04 pm
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Sophia and Gideon making the DNA for their respective eye colours.

(First ever trip to the Glasgow Science Centre, it was awesome)
Original is here on Pixelfed.scot.

Life with two kids: Wednesday shoes

Oct. 30th, 2025 05:45 pm
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This morning Sophia announced, as we were about to leave the house, that she couldn't find her school shoes.

Her black school shoes.

The ones that are and integral part of her Wednesday costume. For the school Halloween disco. This evening.

Jane and I frantically tore the house apart for fifteen minutes and checked *everywhere*. Eventually we forced her, crying, to put on her trainers, promising her that if her shoes turned up we would bring them in to her.

Because we left fifteen minutes late we missed the bus. And so it was that we were halfway through the walk to school when Sophia quietly said "Oh."

And then told me that she'd just remembered that yesterday she'd come home from school in her welly boots, leaving her shoes at her peg.

You'll be delighted to hear that I didn't murder her.
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The foreshore was covered in silt. I considered climbing over the gate outside the National Theatre but the steps looked slippery so I continued to Gabriel’s Wharf and down to Ernie’s Beach. Even there it was muddy so I walked along the sand in the other direction before heading down underneath the wooden structure and then close to the river. I guess the boats hadn't started running until after the tide had gone out a way and so the silt hadn't been washed away.

It was cold that morning, winter really feeling like it had arrived already, and it was only about 4 degrees when I left my house.

Some finds:

A few pottery sherds from Express Dairies (the one saying EDCL and the one with the blue aster flower), perhaps from an Express Dairies cafe. I found there was a cafe at 102 Waterloo Road which was apparently a popular meeting place for gay men in the 1920s.



A tiger's eye bead. So pretty!


A pipe made by E. Spaull. The address on it is 67 Grange Walk, Bermondsey, which shows it was made between 1907 and 1942 by Mrs Elizabeth Spaull & Co.

E. Spaull made clay pipes from 1880 to 1942 and was one of the last companies still making clay pipes in the twentieth century.

Apparently there is still a sign for the company at 67 Grange Walk in Bermondsey, so I will go and look for it sometime!


A piece of glass from an A.1. Sauce bottle.

A.1. Sauce is a type of brown sauce and was likely manufactured in Vauxhall.

Apparently it was still being produced in England in 2020 for export to Asia, so might still be. There are also versions of A.1. Sauce available in the US and Canada.

The bottle would have looked originally like this one:
https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/303136241835

It was advertised like this, as a royal relish. “Brand, this sauce is A.1.”: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A.1._Sauce#/media/File%3AA1_ad_1906.jpg


A piece of glass that says “Pimlico”. I've identified this as part of a bottle made by the Clayton Brothers. They were based in Pimlico. The bottle may have contained lemonade and was probably similar to this one at the London Museum: https://www.londonmuseum.org.uk/collections/v/object-497735/bottle-lemonade-bottle/



Another piece of uranium glass, but not glowing as much, so perhaps it just has a uranium glaze.



A piece of a torpedo bottle, with the distinctive shape.

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A sherd that says “Skey Tamworth.” This would have been from the Wilnecote Works which were founded in 1860 by George Skey & Co. The colour of the sherd makes it look like it could have been from a stoneware flagon.


The glass remains of what looks like it could have been a sugar or salt shaker.


I haven't been able to identify:
The sherd that says “101 Lea” - Leather Lane? Leadenhall Street?
The sherd that looks like it says “CEN”
The sherd that looks like it might have said “Cotton” - perhaps some kind of pot from a chemist?
A piece of glass that says “tary” on it.



A person with a bicycle appeared, also mudlarking, and then two litter pickers and a dog.

I didn't stay too long as I was getting too cold and there was a Tube Walk later in the day, but I found some interesting things.

Mudlarking finds - 57.1

Mudlarking finds - 57.2

(You need a permit to search or mudlark on the Thames foreshore.)
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There's research that if you leave people in a room with an electro-shock shock device long enough to get bored they will deliberately shock themselves.

In other news I took Sophia's phone away from the kids while they were in the bath and now they're repeatedly pouring cold water over themselves while shrieking like baboons.

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Oct. 25th, 2025 10:29 am
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One of these children won at Ticket To Ride: First Journey, the other...did not.
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Mudlarking 56 - Milk trains

Oct. 22nd, 2025 06:55 pm
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The rain stopped just for a bit and it wasn't quite dark so I headed for the foreshore. The tide wasn't far out so I just went to Blackfriars.

I didn't find a lot before it started to rain again and the light was poor.

The piece of glass is from a milk bottle from Express Dairies. I've found a piece of glass from one of their bottles before and it was then that I learnt about milk trains. The milk that would have been inside the bottle likely travelled to London on a milk train. Wikipedia has a detailed article on milk trains: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/British_railway_milk_trains

In other news, I am trying to get to grips with Instagram and attempting to post photos of some of my mudlarking finds over there. In the past I've only really used Instagram to look up what flavours of ice-cream are currently available in various ice-cream parlours, so it may take me a while to get used to it.

Mudlarking finds - 56

(You need a permit to search or mudlark on the Thames foreshore.)

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Oct. 22nd, 2025 12:00 pm

My thinking on transgender issues

Oct. 22nd, 2025 09:46 am
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Every so often I see some politician Gotcha'd with "Can women have penises?" - and the results have always either be flailing or in a very rare case (new Greens leader Zack Polanski) just saying "Yes", in a way which basically hands everything to the interviewer.

And I know that it's really hard to deal with an interviewer who is determined to make you look bad. But it bothers me occasionally that people don't try and explain "But here is my point of view, and where it comes from" - because while saying "Yes" might be very reassuring to people already on your side, it does nothing to persuade others who are just confused by/mildly hostile.

So here, in a simple set of 4 steps is my view.

1) Nobody is choosing to be transgender. It's a difference in brain development.
See here. This isn't new, it's the medical view, and has been for many years.

2) Forcing people to live in the gender that they don't identify as is incredibly destructive to their mental health.
This is also long well known. The vast majority of attempts to raise boys as girls and vice versa have appalling impacts on people. The poster-boy for this was David Reimer, who suffered a terrible accident as a baby which destroyed his penis (in the 60s), never knew he was born a boy, and was raised a girl (on the advice of a doctor who believes that gender was just cultural conditioning). And it made him *incredibly* unhappy - within weeks of his parents breaking the rules they'd been given and telling him (at age 13) that he had been born a boy he'd changed his name and presentation. Details here.

3) Most transgender people are not publicly out.
You might get the impression that trans people are all out activists. But the vast majority aren't. They don't want to be "The person who was born one way and is now another", they want to be the person that they are on the inside. So almost nobody they interact with on a daily basis knows that they are transgender. The ones where "Everyone knows about this transgender person" are the exception, most of them are not public about it. As a friend said "My identity is female and back when I transitioned the advice was to deal and vanish into the big bad women's world."

4) Therefore, as a society, we have a choice between either forcibly outing people whenever they want to use a toilet, get married, throw a ball, or otherwise interact with society, or letting them live in the gender that they are presenting*.

There you go. That's the humane, liberal approach to transgender people. And every time you get hooked into arguments about the definition of the word "woman", you get pulled away from those very simple things: Nobody asked to be born in a body that destroys their mental health. Most people don't want to be public about that having happened to them (because it stops them just living as the gender they are in their brains). So we can either be supportive or we can torture them.

*And that's the approach that the European Court of Human Rights took, in Goodwin vs The United Kingdom in 2001. They balanced the right of someone to not have to out themselves, against the the negative consequences thereof. And found that the proven negative consequences were basically nonexistent. Which is what then led to Labour being forced to pass the Gender Recognition Act. The rights coming from that, to live in the gender that you choose, are what is currently under attack.

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